Princeton University Class of 1983

'83's 26^th Reunion

Over seventy-five ‘83ers made it back for our 26^th Reunion. We were honored with the Class of 1959 Award for setting a Reunions attendance record last year, the Award for Communications Excellence for KELLY ALFORD’s “’83 Nation” designs and the Class of 1926 Trophy for our record-setting Annual Giving performance. Our President emerita, ELISE WRIGHT, received the prestigious Alumni Council Award for Service to Princeton. Sign in for further details!

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Barack Obama s85 calls ROLAND WARREN a "Young Man" ...

THE PRESIDENT: Okay. So what I want to do is just call on some folks. They can ask a question. They can share a story. Organizations that are doing great work on fatherhood, please tell us a little bit about the work that you are doing. And I want to especially hear from some of the young people who somehow ended up sitting in the back. (Laughter.) I don't know how that happened. I'm going to start with this young man right here.

Go ahead. Introduce yourself. Stand up, please.

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Q Yes. My name is Roland Warren. I'm president of an organization called National Fatherhood Initiative. And first, just thank you for what you're doing on this issue. And a lot of folks have been sort of toiling on this issue for a number of years, and to have you come forward and step up and make this a national priority is really important.

And one of the things I just want to say to you, that your message, in terms of the fact that even though you've had obviously tremendous success without your dad, the fact that you really needed him and that kids have a hole in their souls essentially in the shape of their dad I think is pretty important, because we really need to focus on that issue; that we got to change the legacy and help our kids pass on the legacy -- have our dads pass on a different legacy than maybe they inherited.

I grew up without my dad, as well, and went to Princeton and things of that nature, but still needed him. That's one of the reasons I do the work that I do. So I really am delighted that you're doing the great work that you're doing around this issue.

THE PRESIDENT: Thank you so much. Yes, I really want to emphasize this point about how just small moments and gestures can make a huge difference. A lot of folks know I love playing basketball. But it was my father who gave me my first basketball. Even though he wasn't a part of my life, in the few weeks that I was with him, he gave me a basketball.

A lot of folks know I love jazz. It turns out he took me to my first jazz concert. I didn't remember this until later on in life, but just that imprint is powerful. And imagine if that's sustained every day. And especially, young men, when they hit the teenage years, to have somebody there who is there to steady them and to provide them with some guidance, that makes all the difference in the world.

And again, this is not to take away from the heroic work that moms are doing. It's to emphasize moms need some help -- because if you're a single mom like mine was, and maybe they're going to school or working -- the pressures are enormous. And having somebody else there who's able to carry on that child-rearing responsibility is absolutely critical.

Roland C. Warren
President
National Fatherhood Initiative
101 Lake Forest Blvd. Suite 360
Gaithersburg, MD 20877
Website: www.fatherhood.org

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83 Nation: Going Back and Going Global

May 29 - June 1, 2008